LOVE THAT NEVER GROWS…

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LETTING IIt is said that ” TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES” but i want to quote it in a different manner “TRUE LOVE NEVER GROWS”…..It has happened with her…she can still find a part of herself which she  can’t ever share it with anyone else except the one she has loved once…Her love has not grown(changed) for him in all these years..and she can no more force it to leave her…She can’t force herself to stop thinking about it….cause she knows for a fact that..life will move on..she’s  gonna make new friends meet new people but she also knows that she can’t put anybody else above him…We have become slaves towards certain experiences in life which were bitter…we cannot forget it…even if we want to..Letting it go often seems to be the difficult thing of this time..We can leave things..but we cannot let it go…there is a very thin line difference between the two….INSTEAD OF T GO” JUST TELL YOURSELF TO “LET IT BE”…Do not be HARSH on yourself…else you will always end up holding on to a bitter experiences of your life.. 

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THE BATTLE OF KARBALA

THE BATTLE OF KARBALA

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To begin with…this post of mine..doesn’t holds anything against any religion caste or sub caste…but i remember..when i wrote this post for the article of my school magazine..my teacher asked me to edit all the major stuff and then only this article will be published in the school magazine…as this will create a ruckus in school amongst everyone…Karbala and the day of Ashura (the day the massacre occurred) can teach us a lot about unity. This story is not about Good Islam versus Bad Islam. It’s not about Hussein versus Yazid. It’s not even about Right versus Wrong.

WHY ISLAM SPLIT INTO TWO SECTORS??

Earlier there were only Muslims in ISLAM…no sunni no shia…only MUSLIMS..who used to believe that there is only one God named ALLAH and that PROPHET MUHAMMAD(pbuh) is the messenger of ALLAH…To my knowledge the SPLIT IN ISLAM took place after the death of PROPHET MOHAMMAD(pbuh)..where the question of  choosing the next successor arose…some of them wanted ABU BAKR to be the next successor..who was the father of Prophet’s wife Ayesha and was also his friend…while other’s wanted Hazrat ALI IBNE ABU TALIB a.s(s.a.w)..who was his daughter’s husband and his first cousin too..History reveals that Abu Bakr became the first CALIPH and Hazrat Ali Ibne Abu Talib a.s(s.a.w) became the fourth Caliph…THIS IS WHERE THE DIFFERENCE WAS CREATED.

CONCEPT OF IMAMAT AND CALIPHATE!

Shiites(shia’s) believe in the Imamat. This is where Imams are the true Caliphs and are divinely appointed. They are believed to be chosen from the descendants of Muhammad by God to be rulers and the living example for all Muslims to emulate in their daily lives (Imams are believed to have perfectly reflected the practices and behaviours expected by God). WHEREAS, Sunnis believe that the Caliph (the head of the Caliphate, which is the state covering the worldwide community of Muslims, or the Ummah) is a temporal, political office bound within Sharia law and the advice of Islamic lawyers and a kind of parliament, which can elect or impeach the Caliph.

BANI UMMAYAD AND BANI HASHIM!

Thus, Sunnis believe that Abu Bakr was the first Caliph and SHIAS believe that Hazrat Ali Ibne Abu Talib was the first Imam…Since then there is a clear distinction between both the sectors….Bani Ummayad and BANI HASHIM were people from the above mentioned sectors respectively…NOTE THAT:Religion can never disgrace a man…but a man can always disgrace his religion by his stupid acts..The Bani Umayyah had been sworn enemies of the Bani Hashim since the time when Hashim, the forefather of our Prophet (p.b.u.h), had succeeded in banishing his evil half-brother Umayyah from Makka.

After the death of Imam Ali (AS), Muawiya turned his attention to Imam Hasan (AS). Just as his father had done, Imam Hasan (AS) wrote to Muawiya telling him that the crimes he was committing against innocent Muslims were unacceptable. Imam Hasan (AS) asked the People of Kufa to assist him in battle against Muawiya.

 Yazid son of Muawiya

In 60 A.H. this devil declared himself ruler of all Muslims. Yazid was a man of extremely evil habits. He was a drunkard, gambler, womaniser and murderer. He only ruled for 3 years. In the first year he killed Imam Husain (AS) and his companions in Karbala and made their women and children prisoners.

During the second year he ordered his soldiers to enter Madina and do what they liked. As a result, 1,000 people were killed, including 700 close Companions of the Prophet (p.b.u.h). In addition 1,000 women were assaulted and forced to surrender their dignity to Yazid’s men. In the third year, Yazid mounted an attack on the Ka’ba, aiming to destroy it with giant catapults.

Not content with committing crimes in Karbala, Makka and Madina, Yazid appointed Ubaidullah ibne Ziyad as governor of Kufa with specific orders to hunt out and kill the Shia of Imam Ali (AS). Ubaidullah carried out the orders of his master by imprisoning, exiling, hanging or amputating the limbs of the Shia. Yazid’s rule ended with his death in 64 A.H. Before his death, he appointed his son Muawiya as his heir. BATTLE OF KARBALAThe Karbala massacre is notoriously known for being one of the darkest and saddest days in Islamic history. On the tenth day of the sacred Islamic month of Muharram, in the year 61 A.H., approximately 50 years after the death of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), his grandson Hussein was martyred along with all the members of his family, including women and children.

 WHAT EXACTLY YAZID WANTED?

Yazid who became the new ruler after his father’s(Muawiya) death…during his rule..he lead led cruel things happened…INFIDELITY, MOLESTATION, ETC ETC…He wanted Imam Hussain to do Bayat (allegiance)..but since Imam Hussain knew about his cruel intentions he never wanted to have any allegiance with that person..and this led to the war as Yazid made it very clear that if Imam will not accept the offer then he will be killed by the forces of yazid …Imam Hussain A.S accepted to sacrifice his family his children himself rather than having allegiance with the cruel ruler….

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3326d330c46c7c8a5ccbce060e644e56The sacrifices range from grown men, to the 6-month old son of Hussein who did not know of good versus evil but only of thirst and hunger. When Hussein held him up and begged that they be allowed access to water, Yazid’s army shot three spears into his heart.

But, the saddest of sacrifices comes from Hussein’s brother, Abbas, who crossed the battle field to the Euphrates River to bring water back to the infants and children. There, he filled a water skin in hopes of quenching their thirst. The soldiers fired an arrow through his eye and cut off his arms, but that did not halt him. He carried the skin of water in his mouth, crawling towards the tents filled with children, until the army approached him and finally killed him.

Eventually, drenched in Abbas’s blood, the blood of his martyred teenage son, companions, and infant child, Hussein stood alone on the battlefield, with women, children, and the ill waiting in tents. He bid them farewell and shouted to an empty desert behind him “Is there anyone to help me?”, When silence was the only response, he marched to fight the army of Yazid, where he was beheaded (much like ISIS does today), stomped on, and his head attached to a pole. The army then tied up the women and children, and marched them from city to city behind the severed head of Hussein, all the way back to their commander, Yazid.

 WHY DO WE MOURN IN MUHARRAM?

1415196121aOnce you truly understand the stories of Karbala, listening to each one in specific detail, you will understand why millions of Shia every year mourn during Muharram. It’s why they cry and wear black and why Christians and Sunnis alike join them in paying respects to Hussein and his brother Abbas at their shrines in Karbala, Iraq. Not because it’s merely a sad story, but because sacrifices like this didn’t just keep true Islam alive, but kept good alive throughout the Eastern world.

Your history books never taught you that. Your history books will never teach you of the powerful women, like Zainab, the sister of Hussein, who embodied true feminism and stood up to the tyrant Yazid in his castle, even as they were handcuffed and promised to be raped and sold.

The Lebanese writer Antoine Bara once wrote, “No battle in the modern and past history of mankind has earned more sympathy and admiration as well as provided more lessons than the martyrdom of Hussein in the battle of Karbala.”

Hussein and Karbala are not just a story for Shia Muslims, they are a story for humanity.

Ask yourself, if the Battle of Karbala can teach us so much about standing against the image of Islam that the world and media hold today, then why don’t we ever learn about it?

 

JIHAD

JIHAD

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JIHAD…THE true concept OF WHICH in today’s world has been misquoted…most of them think that if somebody is not following Islam..we should kill that person and for them that will be a jihad…

  • JIHAD IS SPIRITUAL STRUGGLE WITHIN ONESELF AGAINST SIN
  • A STRUGGLE OR FIGHT AGAINST THE ENEMIES OF ISLAM
  • Jihad is NOT blowing up one’s self  (Suicide is a sin in Islam).
  • Jihad is NOT Holy War.
  • Jihad is NOT killing innocent people.
  • Jihad is NOT flying a plane into a building packed with civilians.
  • Jihad is NOT fighting out of anger and hatred.
  • Jihad is NOT killing others just because they don’t agree with you.
  • Jihad is NOT killing others just because they are not Muslims.

Jihad has many forms:

  • Jihad of the heart/soul (jihad bin nafs/qalb)
  • Jihad by the tongue (jihad bil lisan)
  • Jihad by the pen/knowledge (jihad bil qalam/ilm)
  • Jihad by the hand (jihad bil yad)
  • Jihad by the sword (jihad bis saif)

Who is a Holy Warrior?

According to the Quran, a martyr who died in the way of Jihad is

promised Paradise. But what are the criteria of martyr, or in other words,

what are the criteria of a Holy Warrior undertaking the True Jihad?

The most famous of all Hadith is the one regarding everything we do are

judged by our intentions; so as it is mentioned in the previous chapter.

So who is an example of a Holy Warrior?

Ali bin Abu Talib, cousin of Prophet Mohammed (s.a.w) and the fourth

Caliph of the Islamic Ummah is a good example.

During one of the battles, Ali was about to give a deathblow to an enemy

soldier. Just then, that enemy soldier spat at Ali. Ali then suddenly

stopped, threw down his sword and refused to kill that enemy soldier.

After the battle, Ali’s soldiers asked Ali why he suddenly stopped

and refused to kill that enemy soldier on the battlefield.

Ali explained that he got angry when that enemy soldier spat at him. So

if he had killed that enemy soldier right then, he would be killing out of

his own anger and no longer fighting for Justice. In the sight of Allah, he

would then be no different from a murderer.

Brothers and Sisters that is how we should see a Holy Warrior!

 

Man Who Couldn’t Love

Man Who Couldn’t Love

m sure many of you must be knowing the difference between love like lust and obsession…but here is a post from my side…something beyond it..have a look at it!!maybe you can relate to your past instances

THE SANE

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DISCLAIMER!! IT’S A LONG POST…BUT A REALLY INTERESTING ONE!

The pain of unrequited love was so much that the guy never ever gave himself a second chance to fall in love with anyone else…It kept on killing him from inside each day….the power of unrequited love is so much that it can break a person completely..it destroys his complete outlook towards love,relationship,marriage..towards those who even care for him as much as nobody else can.

He promised himself never to fall back in love again with anyone else…and so he became a casanova…he started being in relationship with every other girl but mind you…just in A RELATIONSHIP and NOT IN LOVE…girls used to think that how can he love them in such a cruel manner…some of them were comfortable..some of them left…some didn’t care…but Yes there was a girl…who created a space in his heart…YES THAT UNLUCKY GIRL…like any other normal…

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LOYALTY

LOYALTY

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 #LOYALTY   #RELATIONSHIP   #GOALS  #IDEAL   #COUPLE  #RESPECT….We have often heard of such terms more on whats app ,Facebook,Instagram,twitter and on every other social networking site….but in reality only 10% of the population can follow all the above mentioned points…

Certain Guys and Girls often confuse OR mistake LUST FOR LOVE…must have happened with everyone…i guess….usually the person who tends to mistake LUST FOR LOVE can never be loyal to his/her partner whether they post pics of them on social networking site showing off their relationship as the perfect one…

There is nothing such as an ideal couple or a perfect relationship…when people are fiercely loyal towards their partner…they do not have any fear of commitment or taking stand for each other….LOYALTY COMES ONLY WHEN:

  • HE/SHE HAS NO FEAR OF COMMITMENT.
  • MATURITY.
  • HONESTY
  • FREEDOM IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS IMPORTANT.GIVING EACH OTHER THEIR SPACE.
  • THAT FREEDOM CAN ONLY BE GIVEN IF YOU HAVE A COMPLETE TRUST ON YOUR PARTNER.

Relationship works only when both of them are sacrificing,compromising and at the same time respecting each other’s opinions…make each other realise that how badly you want it to work…how badly you want him/her to be your life partner…

A relationship which is only bounded by meeting the physical needs of a person can never be a successful relationship…some people say that “if you want to be in a relationship with me..then you have to be my girl/guy in every sense…you have to do only those things which makes me happy”…DUDE!!!WHAT THE HECK IS THIS…i mean are you putting some sort of terms and conditions before entering into a contract…. ???

Such type of people show their mentally…it shows how sick they can be…to all such people there is a message from my side…

  • NO GIRL/BOY CAN BE YOUR PROPERTY…THEY ARE LIVING BEINGS…THEY ARE HUMAN..THEY POSSESS A HEART UNLIKE YOU…WHO JUST WANTS HIS/HER PHYSICAL NEEDS TO GET SATISFIED…DON’T BE THAT PIECE OF SHIT WITH WHOM NOBODY WOULD LIKE TO HANG AROUND…BE A CLASSY PERSON..A RESPECTABLE PERSON….IF YOU AREN’T READY TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP..DON’T GET INTO IT…BUT STOP BEING A SICK PERSON IN THAT CASE…
  • I DON’T SAY THAT GETTING PHYSICAL WITH EACH OTHER IS BAD…THAT DOESN’T MAKE ANY PERSON CHEAP…LOVE IS FOLLOWED BY TRUST, CARE, RESPECT, LOYALTY AND AS WELL AS PHYSICAL INTIMACY TOWARDS EACH OTHER…BUT IN SOME CASES…PROBLEM ARISES ONLY WHEN YOU ARE REMEMBERED TO GET PHYSICAL WITH HIM/HER…THAT IS WHAT IS KNOWN AS CHEAPNESS…A THIRD CLASS APPROACH WHICH SUCH PEOPLE HAVE TOWARDS THEIR PARTNERS…

Single Parent: Strongest People

Single Parent: Strongest People

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God has made a special bond between a child and a mother…a mother when gets to know that she is expecting starts thinking about the welfare of her child….when a child is in his mother’s womb he gets his nutrition from there only…isn’t that something beautiful…how God has given this powerful right only to a woman and not to a man….not that a man runs away from his responsibilities…but he cannot bear that much of pain which a woman can…

Man has several other responsibilities to carry on…making money so that his family’s future is secured…so that his child and his wife do not have to suffer…whereas a mother has 24*7 duty at home…where she has be a multi-tasker …not at all an easy job….

Mothers play a special part in everyone’s life…a child is always 1% more close to his mother…the FAITH,LOVE,RESPECT which a child has towards his/her mother cannot be compared…a mother even after being so tired…for the happiness of her child will do anything to make her happy… 

People it’s not about the gender..it’s about the human nature….bearing a child is surely not an easy task…If God has blessed you both to become a PARENT..try accepting the fact gracefully rather than feeling sad about it…and starts discussing about each other’s responsibilities towards the child…God puts his into YOU BOTH so that you cannot fail in that….

If taken my view on single parenting then i would like to mention that it is the most difficult thing in this entire world to be a single parent….Plus the society around you makes it so much worse for the single parent…every time making them realise that they are doing charity for their own child…DO NOT BE ASHAMED OF BEING A SINGLE PARENT..RATHER THAN BE PROUD OF YOURSELF TO BE THE ONE WHO CAN DO THAT…

There are so many married couples who are not blessed with such happiness on the other hand there are so many children who are not blessed with parents….both..children as well as parents are inter-dependent on each other..both of them are incomplete without each other….

Raising a child by a single parent is one of the toughest job…anybody can do…therefore…whenever you plan a child…please think about all the PROS AND CONS..think that you are blessed…think that you will take the responsibility of your child…and life will be easy.