The biggest drawback which I see in today’s time is that of following trends. Many people infact…think that there life is a movie…characters which are shown in a film or even if such characters are written in book…read by millions of people some of them relate their characters which are shown in a film…while some of them tries to follow them as a trend…until a new trend sets up….
Earlier people who were not exposed to all such trends were leading a peaceful and facile life….people used to be consistent,stable and uncomplicated….but as soon as coming generation, including us got exposed to a very strong and harsh reality of life… which is also being shown in films… we try to act like that only…trends like…LOVE TRIANGLE…ONE SIDED LOVE…BETRAYING SOMEONE…ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR…such concepts according to me has complicated our lives in many ways…it has entangled our relationships because of which friendship relationship comes to an end soon…people do not want to invest their time in such things…as they have fear of getting hurt at the end of the day…
If we’ll keep on following trends…then that day is not far when we’ll leave everything…even our parents…some of us has already reached that level of insanity….
so stop following trends…be yourself…be you!
I have been a person who has been judgemental,egoistic,stubborn,angry like hell..but at the same time caring,loving and what not…i have acted my age always…and i am sure many of us does the same…nobody becomes mature in one day…I feel the most important determinant of BEING MATURE IS IT’S CIRCUMSTANCES…Since LIFE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES…nothing comes easy to anybody..and even if it does the level of satisfaction and enjoyment would not be greater.
SIMPLICITY AND LOYALTY ARE TWO THINGS WHICH THE WORLD NEEDS THE MOST…As most of the people are leading a FAKE LIFE just to please others…they merely understand that a life when lived to please others will cost them their peace and happiness…IT REALLY DOES.
I too have been like this…but no sooner i realised that why the hell am i living for the sake of other’s happiness…why am i taking my decisions just for the sake that yeah!!he/she might be with me always…LIFE could have been simpler if we try to understand the reasons behind a person’s behaviour..that’s what I call MATURITY…
We tend to meet people who may behave in a very weird manner…at times…rather than judging such people be kind to them and try to understand the pain which they are suffering from…JUDGING is the easiest thing of all…kindness has it’s own way of healing others…IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANYTHING GOOD TO SAY…PLEASE DON’T SPEAK AT ALL…
By hurting someone you won’t become a strong person rather that will show your character…that will highlight your SHORTCOMINGS…the point that you have low self esteem.
AGE FOR ME IS MERELY A NUMBER…MATURITY COMES BY SUFFERINGS…SUFFERINGS CAN ONLY ARISE WHEN YOU HAVE DEALT OR OVERCOME WITH YOUR FEARS AND WEAKNESSES…EVEN A CHILD HAS THIS MUCH SENSE AS WELL AS MATURITY THAT IF HE WILL DELIBERATELY HIT SOMEONE IT WILL HURT THEM.
The more tranquil a man is the more successful he will be…for me…or rather..according to me…tranquility can be achieved only if a person is happy with whatever he has in his life…the ultimate satisfaction is achieved by him during his difficult times when he is grateful to God for every small thing is his blessed with..that’s when a person is in actual tranquility….
We have to find peace within ourselves..rather than giving the charge of being in peace to the other people…as soon as we start expecting..till the time that person fulfils all our expectations..we tend to find ourselves at peace without even realising that we are giving the charge of our happiness and our peace to the other person but when that person..breaks our trust..stops fulfilling our wishes…we tend to think that he is at fault completely..but actually he is not….
WE should expect only from ourselves…our happiness and our mental peace ONLY LIES WITHIN OURSELVES..IF WE FIND TRANQUILITY IN OTHERS….THEN WE CAN NEVER FIND IT WITHIN OURSELVES….
HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A GREAT LIFE AHEAD….LOVE YOURSELF FIRST…!!!:-)