JIHAD…THE true concept OF WHICH in today’s world has been misquoted…most of them think that if somebody is not following Islam..we should kill that person and for them that will be a jihad…
- JIHAD IS SPIRITUAL STRUGGLE WITHIN ONESELF AGAINST SIN
- A STRUGGLE OR FIGHT AGAINST THE ENEMIES OF ISLAM
- Jihad is NOT blowing up one’s self (Suicide is a sin in Islam).
- Jihad is NOT Holy War.
- Jihad is NOT killing innocent people.
- Jihad is NOT flying a plane into a building packed with civilians.
- Jihad is NOT fighting out of anger and hatred.
- Jihad is NOT killing others just because they don’t agree with you.
- Jihad is NOT killing others just because they are not Muslims.
Jihad has many forms:
- Jihad of the heart/soul (jihad bin nafs/qalb)
- Jihad by the tongue (jihad bil lisan)
- Jihad by the pen/knowledge (jihad bil qalam/ilm)
- Jihad by the hand (jihad bil yad)
- Jihad by the sword (jihad bis saif)
Who is a Holy Warrior?
According to the Quran, a martyr who died in the way of Jihad is
promised Paradise. But what are the criteria of martyr, or in other words,
what are the criteria of a Holy Warrior undertaking the True Jihad?
The most famous of all Hadith is the one regarding everything we do are
judged by our intentions; so as it is mentioned in the previous chapter.
So who is an example of a Holy Warrior?
Ali bin Abu Talib, cousin of Prophet Mohammed (s.a.w) and the fourth
Caliph of the Islamic Ummah is a good example.
During one of the battles, Ali was about to give a deathblow to an enemy
soldier. Just then, that enemy soldier spat at Ali. Ali then suddenly
stopped, threw down his sword and refused to kill that enemy soldier.
After the battle, Ali’s soldiers asked Ali why he suddenly stopped
and refused to kill that enemy soldier on the battlefield.
Ali explained that he got angry when that enemy soldier spat at him. So
if he had killed that enemy soldier right then, he would be killing out of
his own anger and no longer fighting for Justice. In the sight of Allah, he
would then be no different from a murderer.
Brothers and Sisters that is how we should see a Holy Warrior!
#LOYALTY #RELATIONSHIP #GOALS #IDEAL #COUPLE #RESPECT….We have often heard of such terms more on whats app ,Facebook,Instagram,twitter and on every other social networking site….but in reality only 10% of the population can follow all the above mentioned points…
Certain Guys and Girls often confuse OR mistake LUST FOR LOVE…must have happened with everyone…i guess….usually the person who tends to mistake LUST FOR LOVE can never be loyal to his/her partner whether they post pics of them on social networking site showing off their relationship as the perfect one…
There is nothing such as an ideal couple or a perfect relationship…when people are fiercely loyal towards their partner…they do not have any fear of commitment or taking stand for each other….LOYALTY COMES ONLY WHEN:
- HE/SHE HAS NO FEAR OF COMMITMENT.
- FREEDOM IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP IS IMPORTANT.GIVING EACH OTHER THEIR SPACE.
- THAT FREEDOM CAN ONLY BE GIVEN IF YOU HAVE A COMPLETE TRUST ON YOUR PARTNER.
Relationship works only when both of them are sacrificing,compromising and at the same time respecting each other’s opinions…make each other realise that how badly you want it to work…how badly you want him/her to be your life partner…
A relationship which is only bounded by meeting the physical needs of a person can never be a successful relationship…some people say that “if you want to be in a relationship with me..then you have to be my girl/guy in every sense…you have to do only those things which makes me happy”…DUDE!!!WHAT THE HECK IS THIS…i mean are you putting some sort of terms and conditions before entering into a contract…. ???
Such type of people show their mentally…it shows how sick they can be…to all such people there is a message from my side…
- NO GIRL/BOY CAN BE YOUR PROPERTY…THEY ARE LIVING BEINGS…THEY ARE HUMAN..THEY POSSESS A HEART UNLIKE YOU…WHO JUST WANTS HIS/HER PHYSICAL NEEDS TO GET SATISFIED…DON’T BE THAT PIECE OF SHIT WITH WHOM NOBODY WOULD LIKE TO HANG AROUND…BE A CLASSY PERSON..A RESPECTABLE PERSON….IF YOU AREN’T READY TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP..DON’T GET INTO IT…BUT STOP BEING A SICK PERSON IN THAT CASE…
- I DON’T SAY THAT GETTING PHYSICAL WITH EACH OTHER IS BAD…THAT DOESN’T MAKE ANY PERSON CHEAP…LOVE IS FOLLOWED BY TRUST, CARE, RESPECT, LOYALTY AND AS WELL AS PHYSICAL INTIMACY TOWARDS EACH OTHER…BUT IN SOME CASES…PROBLEM ARISES ONLY WHEN YOU ARE REMEMBERED TO GET PHYSICAL WITH HIM/HER…THAT IS WHAT IS KNOWN AS CHEAPNESS…A THIRD CLASS APPROACH WHICH SUCH PEOPLE HAVE TOWARDS THEIR PARTNERS…
God has made a special bond between a child and a mother…a mother when gets to know that she is expecting starts thinking about the welfare of her child….when a child is in his mother’s womb he gets his nutrition from there only…isn’t that something beautiful…how God has given this powerful right only to a woman and not to a man….not that a man runs away from his responsibilities…but he cannot bear that much of pain which a woman can…
Man has several other responsibilities to carry on…making money so that his family’s future is secured…so that his child and his wife do not have to suffer…whereas a mother has 24*7 duty at home…where she has be a multi-tasker …not at all an easy job….
Mothers play a special part in everyone’s life…a child is always 1% more close to his mother…the FAITH,LOVE,RESPECT which a child has towards his/her mother cannot be compared…a mother even after being so tired…for the happiness of her child will do anything to make her happy…
People it’s not about the gender..it’s about the human nature….bearing a child is surely not an easy task…If God has blessed you both to become a PARENT..try accepting the fact gracefully rather than feeling sad about it…and starts discussing about each other’s responsibilities towards the child…God puts his into YOU BOTH so that you cannot fail in that….
If taken my view on single parenting then i would like to mention that it is the most difficult thing in this entire world to be a single parent….Plus the society around you makes it so much worse for the single parent…every time making them realise that they are doing charity for their own child…DO NOT BE ASHAMED OF BEING A SINGLE PARENT..RATHER THAN BE PROUD OF YOURSELF TO BE THE ONE WHO CAN DO THAT…
There are so many married couples who are not blessed with such happiness on the other hand there are so many children who are not blessed with parents….both..children as well as parents are inter-dependent on each other..both of them are incomplete without each other….
Raising a child by a single parent is one of the toughest job…anybody can do…therefore…whenever you plan a child…please think about all the PROS AND CONS..think that you are blessed…think that you will take the responsibility of your child…and life will be easy.
As Food nourishes our body…same way…Food for the soul.. refreshes us…improves our well being…something which only a particular thing can satisfy the soul…only a particular thing can give peace to the soul…For a TRAVELLER..TRAVELLING can be his FOOD FOR THE SOUL…as he finds his happiness..his satisfaction and his peace in exploring new things..finding interesting facts about the new culture of people living in different countries and people of different religion…SIMILARLY..for a WRITER…his/her food for the soul…will be writing…expressing his/her thoughts…into words..unless and until he/she doesn’t finds a pen or a paper to express his feelings he/she cannot derive that level of satisfaction from any other thing in life…
My idea for escaping from messy things around myself…is WRITING…what about your’s???Reading novels is still one of my favourite thing to do when I am free..it just takes to you to another world of imagination where you are the invisible person who can see everyone (i.e.every character of the story) but none of them can see you…i count that as a really interesting part of reading…but again the worst part of it is that you have to come back to the real world where you are no super-girl or a boy..and you have to face every mellow drama every difficulty by your own…
READING inspires me whereas WRITING gives me peace…there is so much in our life that can be put into the content to write…for every imaginary story…the content written is based on REALITY…THEREFORE..FOR ME WRITING IS THE FOOD FOR MY SOUL…WITHOUT WHICH I AM NOTHING :-)♥♥♥
” Love that breaks you but still keeps you together, love that creates distances still brings you closer, love that is true and forever and i have learnt that if you have the power to love like that, then God makes sure that your love finds it’s way, all that you have to do is just hang in there and wait, wait for your time.”
Loving someone is really easy…saying that you have fallen for someone is more easy…but to accept the person as it is along with his/her imperfections…staying true to your feelings…making sure you gonna stay with that person till death do them apart..that is called LOVE in TRUE SENSE…Maybe sometimes the person cannot take stand at the time of need but that doesn’t makes him an unloyal person…
Love that we cannot have breaks us….we cannot all again trust the same person in life whom we once had…we tend to lose our faith, patience and trust on the very feeling of love… Giving yourself a chance again is very important…God has given us Love in the form of Friends,Family and Relatives…it doesn’t always means that Love is only meant for couples and all…Creatures of God are meant to be loved…taken care of and not to hurt each other deliberately…SPREAD LOVE!