The biggest drawback which I see in today’s time is that of following trends. Many people infact…think that there life is a movie…characters which are shown in a film or even if such characters are written in book…read by millions of people some of them relate their characters which are shown in a film…while some of them tries to follow them as a trend…until a new trend sets up….
Earlier people who were not exposed to all such trends were leading a peaceful and facile life….people used to be consistent,stable and uncomplicated….but as soon as coming generation, including us got exposed to a very strong and harsh reality of life… which is also being shown in films… we try to act like that only…trends like…LOVE TRIANGLE…ONE SIDED LOVE…BETRAYING SOMEONE…ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR…such concepts according to me has complicated our lives in many ways…it has entangled our relationships because of which friendship relationship comes to an end soon…people do not want to invest their time in such things…as they have fear of getting hurt at the end of the day…
If we’ll keep on following trends…then that day is not far when we’ll leave everything…even our parents…some of us has already reached that level of insanity….
so stop following trends…be yourself…be you!
I have been a person who has been judgemental,egoistic,stubborn,angry like hell..but at the same time caring,loving and what not…i have acted my age always…and i am sure many of us does the same…nobody becomes mature in one day…I feel the most important determinant of BEING MATURE IS IT’S CIRCUMSTANCES…Since LIFE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES…nothing comes easy to anybody..and even if it does the level of satisfaction and enjoyment would not be greater.
SIMPLICITY AND LOYALTY ARE TWO THINGS WHICH THE WORLD NEEDS THE MOST…As most of the people are leading a FAKE LIFE just to please others…they merely understand that a life when lived to please others will cost them their peace and happiness…IT REALLY DOES.
I too have been like this…but no sooner i realised that why the hell am i living for the sake of other’s happiness…why am i taking my decisions just for the sake that yeah!!he/she might be with me always…LIFE could have been simpler if we try to understand the reasons behind a person’s behaviour..that’s what I call MATURITY…
We tend to meet people who may behave in a very weird manner…at times…rather than judging such people be kind to them and try to understand the pain which they are suffering from…JUDGING is the easiest thing of all…kindness has it’s own way of healing others…IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANYTHING GOOD TO SAY…PLEASE DON’T SPEAK AT ALL…
By hurting someone you won’t become a strong person rather that will show your character…that will highlight your SHORTCOMINGS…the point that you have low self esteem.
AGE FOR ME IS MERELY A NUMBER…MATURITY COMES BY SUFFERINGS…SUFFERINGS CAN ONLY ARISE WHEN YOU HAVE DEALT OR OVERCOME WITH YOUR FEARS AND WEAKNESSES…EVEN A CHILD HAS THIS MUCH SENSE AS WELL AS MATURITY THAT IF HE WILL DELIBERATELY HIT SOMEONE IT WILL HURT THEM.
Maybe this post of mine could be harsh for you all!! but in life we all face problems whether we are rich poor or middle class…it’s just that we think that Oh GOD! he is a rich fellow he must not have faced so much of problems as much as i have faced…but not everyone is expressive…we don’t come to know about someone else’s problem unless and until they don’t express it to us….ACCEPTANCE doesn’t comes easily…I don’t get it when parents can’t resolve their matters amongst themselves then why the hell do they start blaming their children for it…frustrated, disgusted, furious for every God damn reason they start blaming their kids for it..as if their kids are their punching bags….Hold On! MARRIAGE & FAMILY PLANNING are two things which scares me like hell…i do not come from a broken family but surely i am not happy either with the thinking level which everyone is having!!! Don’t wanna get married then don’t get married…don’t wanna have children then don’t nobody is forcing you to have children or get married…unless and until you are not ready you should not go for it..as simple as that..thank you!
“LETTING IIt is said that ” TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES” but i want to quote it in a different manner “TRUE LOVE NEVER GROWS”…..It has happened with her…she can still find a part of herself which she can’t ever share it with anyone else except the one she has loved once…Her love has not grown(changed) for him in all these years..and she can no more force it to leave her…She can’t force herself to stop thinking about it….cause she knows for a fact that..life will move on..she’s gonna make new friends meet new people but she also knows that she can’t put anybody else above him…We have become slaves towards certain experiences in life which were bitter…we cannot forget it…even if we want to..Letting it go often seems to be the difficult thing of this time..We can leave things..but we cannot let it go…there is a very thin line difference between the two….INSTEAD OF T GO” JUST TELL YOURSELF TO “LET IT BE”…Do not be HARSH on yourself…else you will always end up holding on to a bitter experiences of your life..