Age is just a number,maturity is by choice

FeaturedAge is just a number,maturity is by choice

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          I have been a person who has been judgemental,egoistic,stubborn,angry like hell..but at the same time caring,loving and what not…i have acted my age always…and i am sure many of us does the same…nobody becomes mature in one day…I feel the most important determinant of BEING MATURE IS IT’S CIRCUMSTANCES…Since LIFE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES…nothing comes easy to anybody..and even if it does the level of satisfaction and enjoyment would not be greater.

     SIMPLICITY AND LOYALTY ARE TWO THINGS WHICH THE WORLD NEEDS THE MOST…As most of the people are leading a FAKE LIFE  just to please others…they merely understand that a life when lived to please others will cost them their peace and happiness…IT REALLY DOES.

       I too have been like this…but no sooner i realised that why the hell am i living for the sake of other’s happiness…why am i taking my decisions just for the sake that yeah!!he/she might be with me always…LIFE could have been simpler if we try to understand the reasons behind a person’s behaviour..that’s what I call MATURITY… 

We tend to meet people who may behave in a very weird manner…at times…rather than judging such  people be kind to them and try to understand the pain which they are suffering from…JUDGING is the easiest thing of all…kindness has it’s own way of healing others…IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANYTHING GOOD TO SAY…PLEASE DON’T SPEAK AT ALL…

  By hurting someone you won’t become a strong person rather that will show your character…that will highlight your SHORTCOMINGS…the point that you have low self esteem.

AGE FOR ME IS MERELY A NUMBER…MATURITY COMES BY SUFFERINGS…SUFFERINGS CAN ONLY ARISE WHEN YOU HAVE DEALT OR OVERCOME WITH YOUR FEARS AND WEAKNESSES…EVEN A CHILD HAS THIS MUCH SENSE AS WELL AS MATURITY THAT IF HE WILL DELIBERATELY HIT SOMEONE IT WILL HURT THEM.

THE MISUNDERSTANDING

THE MISUNDERSTANDING

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Fighting-Parents

Maybe this post of  mine could be harsh for you all!! but in life we all face problems whether we are rich poor or middle class…it’s just that we think that Oh GOD! he is a rich fellow he must not have faced so much of problems as much as i have faced…but not everyone is expressive…we don’t come to know about someone else’s problem unless and until they don’t express it to us….ACCEPTANCE doesn’t comes easily…I don’t get it when parents can’t resolve their matters amongst themselves then why the hell do they start blaming their children for it…frustrated, disgusted, furious for every God damn reason they start blaming their kids for it..as if their kids are their punching bags….Hold On! MARRIAGE  & FAMILY PLANNING are two things which scares me like hell…i do not come from a broken family but surely i am not happy either with…

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THE MISUNDERSTANDING

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Fighting-Parents

Maybe this post of  mine could be harsh for you all!! but in life we all face problems whether we are rich poor or middle class…it’s just that we think that Oh GOD! he is a rich fellow he must not have faced so much of problems as much as i have faced…but not everyone is expressive…we don’t come to know about someone else’s problem unless and until they don’t express it to us….ACCEPTANCE doesn’t comes easily…I don’t get it when parents can’t resolve their matters amongst themselves then why the hell do they start blaming their children for it…frustrated, disgusted, furious for every God damn reason they start blaming their kids for it..as if their kids are their punching bags….Hold On! MARRIAGE  & FAMILY PLANNING are two things which scares me like hell…i do not come from a broken family but surely i am not happy either with the thinking level which everyone is having!!! Don’t wanna get married then don’t get married…don’t wanna have children then don’t nobody is forcing you to have children or get married…unless and until you are not ready you should not go for it..as simple as that..thank you!

LOVE THAT NEVER GROWS…

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LETTING IIt is said that ” TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES” but i want to quote it in a different manner “TRUE LOVE NEVER GROWS”…..It has happened with her…she can still find a part of herself which she  can’t ever share it with anyone else except the one she has loved once…Her love has not grown(changed) for him in all these years..and she can no more force it to leave her…She can’t force herself to stop thinking about it….cause she knows for a fact that..life will move on..she’s  gonna make new friends meet new people but she also knows that she can’t put anybody else above him…We have become slaves towards certain experiences in life which were bitter…we cannot forget it…even if we want to..Letting it go often seems to be the difficult thing of this time..We can leave things..but we cannot let it go…there is a very thin line difference between the two….INSTEAD OF T GO” JUST TELL YOURSELF TO “LET IT BE”…Do not be HARSH on yourself…else you will always end up holding on to a bitter experiences of your life.. 

THE BATTLE OF KARBALA

THE BATTLE OF KARBALA

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To begin with…this post of mine..doesn’t holds anything against any religion caste or sub caste…but i remember..when i wrote this post for the article of my school magazine..my teacher asked me to edit all the major stuff and then only this article will be published in the school magazine…as this will create a ruckus in school amongst everyone…Karbala and the day of Ashura (the day the massacre occurred) can teach us a lot about unity. This story is not about Good Islam versus Bad Islam. It’s not about Hussein versus Yazid. It’s not even about Right versus Wrong.

WHY ISLAM SPLIT INTO TWO SECTORS??

Earlier there were only Muslims in ISLAM…no sunni no shia…only MUSLIMS..who used to believe that there is only one God named ALLAH and that PROPHET MUHAMMAD(pbuh) is the messenger of ALLAH…To my knowledge the SPLIT IN ISLAM took place after the death of PROPHET MOHAMMAD(pbuh)..where the question of  choosing the next successor arose…some of them wanted ABU BAKR to be the next successor..who was the father of Prophet’s wife Ayesha and was also his friend…while other’s wanted Hazrat ALI IBNE ABU TALIB a.s(s.a.w)..who was his daughter’s husband and his first cousin too..History reveals that Abu Bakr became the first CALIPH and Hazrat Ali Ibne Abu Talib a.s(s.a.w) became the fourth Caliph…THIS IS WHERE THE DIFFERENCE WAS CREATED.

CONCEPT OF IMAMAT AND CALIPHATE!

Shiites(shia’s) believe in the Imamat. This is where Imams are the true Caliphs and are divinely appointed. They are believed to be chosen from the descendants of Muhammad by God to be rulers and the living example for all Muslims to emulate in their daily lives (Imams are believed to have perfectly reflected the practices and behaviours expected by God). WHEREAS, Sunnis believe that the Caliph (the head of the Caliphate, which is the state covering the worldwide community of Muslims, or the Ummah) is a temporal, political office bound within Sharia law and the advice of Islamic lawyers and a kind of parliament, which can elect or impeach the Caliph.

BANI UMMAYAD AND BANI HASHIM!

Thus, Sunnis believe that Abu Bakr was the first Caliph and SHIAS believe that Hazrat Ali Ibne Abu Talib was the first Imam…Since then there is a clear distinction between both the sectors….Bani Ummayad and BANI HASHIM were people from the above mentioned sectors respectively…NOTE THAT:Religion can never disgrace a man…but a man can always disgrace his religion by his stupid acts..The Bani Umayyah had been sworn enemies of the Bani Hashim since the time when Hashim, the forefather of our Prophet (p.b.u.h), had succeeded in banishing his evil half-brother Umayyah from Makka.

After the death of Imam Ali (AS), Muawiya turned his attention to Imam Hasan (AS). Just as his father had done, Imam Hasan (AS) wrote to Muawiya telling him that the crimes he was committing against innocent Muslims were unacceptable. Imam Hasan (AS) asked the People of Kufa to assist him in battle against Muawiya.

 Yazid son of Muawiya

In 60 A.H. this devil declared himself ruler of all Muslims. Yazid was a man of extremely evil habits. He was a drunkard, gambler, womaniser and murderer. He only ruled for 3 years. In the first year he killed Imam Husain (AS) and his companions in Karbala and made their women and children prisoners.

During the second year he ordered his soldiers to enter Madina and do what they liked. As a result, 1,000 people were killed, including 700 close Companions of the Prophet (p.b.u.h). In addition 1,000 women were assaulted and forced to surrender their dignity to Yazid’s men. In the third year, Yazid mounted an attack on the Ka’ba, aiming to destroy it with giant catapults.

Not content with committing crimes in Karbala, Makka and Madina, Yazid appointed Ubaidullah ibne Ziyad as governor of Kufa with specific orders to hunt out and kill the Shia of Imam Ali (AS). Ubaidullah carried out the orders of his master by imprisoning, exiling, hanging or amputating the limbs of the Shia. Yazid’s rule ended with his death in 64 A.H. Before his death, he appointed his son Muawiya as his heir. BATTLE OF KARBALAThe Karbala massacre is notoriously known for being one of the darkest and saddest days in Islamic history. On the tenth day of the sacred Islamic month of Muharram, in the year 61 A.H., approximately 50 years after the death of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), his grandson Hussein was martyred along with all the members of his family, including women and children.

 WHAT EXACTLY YAZID WANTED?

Yazid who became the new ruler after his father’s(Muawiya) death…during his rule..he lead led cruel things happened…INFIDELITY, MOLESTATION, ETC ETC…He wanted Imam Hussain to do Bayat (allegiance)..but since Imam Hussain knew about his cruel intentions he never wanted to have any allegiance with that person..and this led to the war as Yazid made it very clear that if Imam will not accept the offer then he will be killed by the forces of yazid …Imam Hussain A.S accepted to sacrifice his family his children himself rather than having allegiance with the cruel ruler….

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3326d330c46c7c8a5ccbce060e644e56The sacrifices range from grown men, to the 6-month old son of Hussein who did not know of good versus evil but only of thirst and hunger. When Hussein held him up and begged that they be allowed access to water, Yazid’s army shot three spears into his heart.

But, the saddest of sacrifices comes from Hussein’s brother, Abbas, who crossed the battle field to the Euphrates River to bring water back to the infants and children. There, he filled a water skin in hopes of quenching their thirst. The soldiers fired an arrow through his eye and cut off his arms, but that did not halt him. He carried the skin of water in his mouth, crawling towards the tents filled with children, until the army approached him and finally killed him.

Eventually, drenched in Abbas’s blood, the blood of his martyred teenage son, companions, and infant child, Hussein stood alone on the battlefield, with women, children, and the ill waiting in tents. He bid them farewell and shouted to an empty desert behind him “Is there anyone to help me?”, When silence was the only response, he marched to fight the army of Yazid, where he was beheaded (much like ISIS does today), stomped on, and his head attached to a pole. The army then tied up the women and children, and marched them from city to city behind the severed head of Hussein, all the way back to their commander, Yazid.

 WHY DO WE MOURN IN MUHARRAM?

1415196121aOnce you truly understand the stories of Karbala, listening to each one in specific detail, you will understand why millions of Shia every year mourn during Muharram. It’s why they cry and wear black and why Christians and Sunnis alike join them in paying respects to Hussein and his brother Abbas at their shrines in Karbala, Iraq. Not because it’s merely a sad story, but because sacrifices like this didn’t just keep true Islam alive, but kept good alive throughout the Eastern world.

Your history books never taught you that. Your history books will never teach you of the powerful women, like Zainab, the sister of Hussein, who embodied true feminism and stood up to the tyrant Yazid in his castle, even as they were handcuffed and promised to be raped and sold.

The Lebanese writer Antoine Bara once wrote, “No battle in the modern and past history of mankind has earned more sympathy and admiration as well as provided more lessons than the martyrdom of Hussein in the battle of Karbala.”

Hussein and Karbala are not just a story for Shia Muslims, they are a story for humanity.

Ask yourself, if the Battle of Karbala can teach us so much about standing against the image of Islam that the world and media hold today, then why don’t we ever learn about it?