Poverty scares me…it scares the hell out of me…i don’t know whether to consider myself lucky enough to feel happy about the fact that God has provided me with things and people who are an important part of everybody’s life or to feel sad about people who do not have their parents with them….
I am SAD about the fact that this POVERTY was not at all created by the ONE WHO HAS CREATED US! What an irony….This world doesn’t know what our creator expects us to do…but in return we are doing things what he doesn’t expect from us…
Instead of accepting the realities of the world…we in turn boast about ourselves first…trying to help the poor in front of a thousand people is nothing but showing the world…Did God ever shows anybody that i am helping this person…????He wants or expects the same from His creatures to….
Rather than bridging up that gap…we are even creating the gap…instead of helping them out we…getting them aware about certain facts…helping them in realizing that they are self sufficient..they can earn their own living….
Remember….it’s not a life given by the God…it’s a life which they are leading because of US!
The biggest drawback which I see in today’s time is that of following trends. Many people infact…think that there life is a movie…characters which are shown in a film or even if such characters are written in book…read by millions of people some of them relate their characters which are shown in a film…while some of them tries to follow them as a trend…until a new trend sets up….
Earlier people who were not exposed to all such trends were leading a peaceful and facile life….people used to be consistent,stable and uncomplicated….but as soon as coming generation, including us got exposed to a very strong and harsh reality of life… which is also being shown in films… we try to act like that only…trends like…LOVE TRIANGLE…ONE SIDED LOVE…BETRAYING SOMEONE…ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR…such concepts according to me has complicated our lives in many ways…it has entangled our relationships because of which friendship relationship comes to an end soon…people do not want to invest their time in such things…as they have fear of getting hurt at the end of the day…
If we’ll keep on following trends…then that day is not far when we’ll leave everything…even our parents…some of us has already reached that level of insanity….
so stop following trends…be yourself…be you!
I have been a person who has been judgemental,egoistic,stubborn,angry like hell..but at the same time caring,loving and what not…i have acted my age always…and i am sure many of us does the same…nobody becomes mature in one day…I feel the most important determinant of BEING MATURE IS IT’S CIRCUMSTANCES…Since LIFE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES…nothing comes easy to anybody..and even if it does the level of satisfaction and enjoyment would not be greater.
SIMPLICITY AND LOYALTY ARE TWO THINGS WHICH THE WORLD NEEDS THE MOST…As most of the people are leading a FAKE LIFE just to please others…they merely understand that a life when lived to please others will cost them their peace and happiness…IT REALLY DOES.
I too have been like this…but no sooner i realised that why the hell am i living for the sake of other’s happiness…why am i taking my decisions just for the sake that yeah!!he/she might be with me always…LIFE could have been simpler if we try to understand the reasons behind a person’s behaviour..that’s what I call MATURITY…
We tend to meet people who may behave in a very weird manner…at times…rather than judging such people be kind to them and try to understand the pain which they are suffering from…JUDGING is the easiest thing of all…kindness has it’s own way of healing others…IF YOU DON’T HAVE ANYTHING GOOD TO SAY…PLEASE DON’T SPEAK AT ALL…
By hurting someone you won’t become a strong person rather that will show your character…that will highlight your SHORTCOMINGS…the point that you have low self esteem.
AGE FOR ME IS MERELY A NUMBER…MATURITY COMES BY SUFFERINGS…SUFFERINGS CAN ONLY ARISE WHEN YOU HAVE DEALT OR OVERCOME WITH YOUR FEARS AND WEAKNESSES…EVEN A CHILD HAS THIS MUCH SENSE AS WELL AS MATURITY THAT IF HE WILL DELIBERATELY HIT SOMEONE IT WILL HURT THEM.
Maybe this post of mine could be harsh for you all!! but in life we all face problems whether we are rich poor or middle class…it’s just that we think that Oh GOD! he is a rich fellow he must not have faced so much of problems as much as i have faced…but not everyone is expressive…we don’t come to know about someone else’s problem unless and until they don’t express it to us….ACCEPTANCE doesn’t comes easily…I don’t get it when parents can’t resolve their matters amongst themselves then why the hell do they start blaming their children for it…frustrated, disgusted, furious for every God damn reason they start blaming their kids for it..as if their kids are their punching bags….Hold On! MARRIAGE & FAMILY PLANNING are two things which scares me like hell…i do not come from a broken family but surely i am not happy either with the thinking level which everyone is having!!! Don’t wanna get married then don’t get married…don’t wanna have children then don’t nobody is forcing you to have children or get married…unless and until you are not ready you should not go for it..as simple as that..thank you!